3 Mistakes After Breaking Up With Your Ex

Are you hurting from a breakup?
Do you still hear from everyone that you need to move on and let go?

Breakup's are a hard experience to go through. It leaves you feeling pain, stress, and sometimes lost or confused.You feel needy but all breakups are not forever. If you want to get back in the swing of things you need to know that around 90% of breakups can be reversible.

In this post, we are going to look at the common mistakes people make after being broken up. This mistakes are natural however it does hurt you chances of getting back together with your EX. This is really important so make sure you read every point.

1. Becoming Mr. Needy

After a breakup, the first mistake that people make is pleading or begging to get back together. Logically, it does make sense to do however, IT'S NOT. It's the worst and last thing to do at this moment. Women and Men need space and that is understandable. Let's face it, no one wants a needy person in the relationship. It's unattractive and this cause an effect of someone to push away from you. This gives them a better reason to thing that they made the right decision.

2. Freaking Out When The EX Starts Visiting Someone

After a breakup, you are feeling mixed emotions such as sadness, anger and tension. It's normal but if your ex starts seeing someone else immediately it starts to hurt real bad. You feel more anger and confused. If your caught in this ''rebound'' relationship the first thing to do is not lose your cool. You may have had a relationship and it seems that they are becoming too intimate quickly this may make it worse for you. For example, it took your partner a couple of months to get physical with you and they are already sleeping with this new person who they are going with for after a few days.

The one thing to remember is that 'rebound' relationships don't last the test of time. Change is not easy after a breakup and people are trying to get back in the groove. Remember, rebound relationships are like sugar because it's not always healthy and it doesn't last long. Always stay calm, focus on recovery and be YOU.

3. Giving Them Too Much Love and Affection

You have heard this line before: ''You know I love you, and I always want to be with you so please, please I love you''
Logically, the first thing is to tell them how much you love and adore them quickly as you can after the breakup but it's not a good plan. Trust me.

Your ex knows for a fact how much you care and love them that's why you were in a relationship. The last thing you ex needs to hear is the words 'I LOVE YOU in a sentence. This may help them to think less of you and drive a wedge between the both of you.

It's OK, but what if you have done these mistakes? It's normal and many people have been in your same shoes. These mistakes are decreasing your chances to get back together with your EX but you can fix them.

Falling In Love

Love, not everyone finds it but everyone goes through their stages of love. You could be falling in love with a stranger, or even a friend that you have known for many years. We all go through this. It may not be as pretty as you like but it does occur. There are many things that go through your mind such as:

- How do I tell this person I like them?
- Why am I feeling this way?
- What will happen to our friendship?

The one thng to remember is that friendship and love go hand in hand. It's like two differenr desires put into one. Whether your falling in love with a friend or a complete stranger just know that it's natural. It's the best thing that you've ever done. It's complex and difficult to understand but gives a trust test of character.

My Heart

There are always love songs that tug on your emotions. They make you cry, swoon and make your heart hungry for more. Every time I hear a love song on the radio I feel happy inside. There are sometimes when I can't help but to sing the song. There are songs that play a huge role in life and songs that you just love. Check out the list below of love songs and let me know what makes you smile.

"Build Me Up Buttercup," The Foundations
"My Heart Will Go On", Celine Dion
"It's Only Love", The Beatles
"Wouldn’t it be Nice," The Beach Boys
"I Don't Want To Miss A Thing", Areosmith
"Open Arms", Journey
"I'll Be There For You", Bon Jovi
"I'll Be There", Jackson 5
"You Are The Sunshine Of My Life", Stevie Wonder
"When I Fall in Love", Nat King Cole

Even though some of these songs are old school, sometimes it's good to be in love.

To Love....

Because I Love You

We all have that special someone in our lives. The one that makes us happy when we are sad, the one that makes you blush when you see them, the one that is always worth fighting for. You care for this person so much that you will do anything for them. There are many different ways to show your affection for that person and give them that special feeling inside.

- Make a thank you note for them
- Take them out to a dinner and a movie
- Spend sometime at home and have romantic night
- Go for a picnic

These are just some of the ways to show that you love them. Make everyday feel special not just an anniversary or birthday and say "I Love You"

How To Heal That Broken Heart

Going through a heartbreaking moment is not the easiest time in a person's life. There are good things and bad things that come with having a heart broken. Most people just pick up the ice cream and try to find an instant relief however, there are no ''magic bullets'' to fix this. When dealing with heartbreak many people try to find an outlet to deal with the problem. Try asking yourself a couple of these questions:

-Did it make me feel satisfied when I was in this relationship or situation?
-Did it bring me joy when I was with them?

The answer to that may be ''YES''. One thing to remembr is that you were joyful then and you still can be. As the world, keeps turning and more people continue to be brought into your life such as your friends and family don't let yourself be fixed on one person. Embrace the good with the bad and remember your not alone.

We all deserve the best in life and you can obtain it. Take your time, enjoy life with the people you care about and your heart will heal in time.